Bert: Hmmmmm. Whad’yuh think about that, Sue? Sue: I could live with a husband like that! [Here Greg let her answer his question, even though it was addressed to her instead of to himself. He understands when to be flexible and when not to be.] Pastor: Sure. I’m sure you could. But you could also live with one not like that—if necessary—because, remember, God says that you can bear up under any trial He sends your way. What you do doesn’t depend on what Bert does or doesn’t do. It depends on you.